
A genuine Southern gem, Italian Cream Cake stands out as a masterpiece of simple elegance. Every bite showcases three different textures - incredibly soft cake, crunchy pecans, and smooth frosting - making a flavor combo that's been part of family gatherings for countless years.
I tried tons of versions before landing on this one - it's now my family's top pick. At my daughter's wedding, folks actually waited in line for more, and three guests asked me for the recipe before they even finished eating.
Complete Ingredients Breakdown
- Flour and Cornstarch: Work together as a DIY cake flour that makes the softest possible texture
- Buttermilk: The real stuff brings softness and a gentle tang - don't try using substitutes
- Eggs: We use them two ways - yolks add richness while beaten whites make it airy
- Unsalted Butter: Lets you manage the saltiness and gives you pure butter taste
- Cream Cheese: Pick full-fat at room temp for the creamiest frosting
- Coconut: Go for unsweetened to add texture without extra sugar
- Pecans: Get them fresh and toast them if you can for better flavor
Crafting Your Dream Cake
- Mix Base:
- Start by beating butter and sugar till it's super fluffy - this step sets up your whole cake.
- Adding Eggs:
- Mix in egg yolks one at a time, waiting for each to completely blend before adding another.
- Building Structure:
- Add dry ingredients and buttermilk in turns, mixing gently to keep the batter light.
- Airy Magic:
- Beat egg whites till they're shiny and peaked, then fold them in carefully to keep all those air bubbles.
- Frosting Bliss:
- Mix cream cheese and butter till they're totally smooth before slowly adding sugar for just the right spreading texture.

My grandma always added a tiny bit of almond extract with the vanilla - it brings this mysterious fancy touch that makes everyone wonder what your secret is.
Fantastic Serving Ideas
Make this cake extra special by serving it with fresh coffee or espresso - the slight bitterness works wonders with the cake's sweetness. For fancy occasions, I serve it with homemade vanilla ice cream that slowly melts into each bite. In springtime, I top it with fresh berries and edible flowers for a gorgeous look that makes everyone want a slice.
Tasty Twists
Put your own spin on this favorite while keeping what makes it great. Try swapping some pecans for toasted macadamias to get a tropical feel. Sprinkle dark chocolate between layers for extra luxury. When fall comes around, add warm spices like cinnamon and nutmeg to the batter. My Christmas version comes with sugared cranberries and tiny rosemary sprigs that always wow my guests.
Keeping It Fresh
Keep your cake tasting its best by storing it covered in the fridge for up to five days. Let it sit out for 30 minutes before eating so the frosting can soften up. If you want to plan ahead, wrap plain cake layers in plastic and foil and freeze them for up to two months. Thaw in the fridge overnight before adding frosting. You can even freeze single slices, well wrapped, for when you need a quick sweet fix.
Prep Ahead Tricks
Get things ready early for easy assembly later. Bake your layers up to three days before, wrap them well, and keep in the fridge. Make your frosting a day ahead, refrigerate it, then let it warm up and beat it again before using. Toast nuts and get garnishes ready ahead of time, keeping them in sealed containers until needed.

This Italian Cream Cake shows off the very best of Southern baking traditions. The perfect mix of tender cake, crunchy nuts, and velvety frosting creates something truly special. Whether it's at a wedding, holiday party, or just Sunday dinner, this cake turns ordinary moments into celebrations. The recipe might look tricky, but each step helps create a dessert that can become part of your family story, just like it has with mine.
Frequently Asked Questions
- → Why must bowls be totally clean for egg whites?
- Even tiny bits of fat will stop egg whites from forming stiff peaks, which you need for the cake's fluffy texture.
- → Can I prepare this cake beforehand?
- Sure, you can make the layers one day early and keep them wrapped at room temperature, then add frosting when you're ready to serve.
- → Why should ingredients be room temperature?
- Ingredients at room temperature mix more thoroughly and give you a smoother, more consistent cake batter.
- → Can I swap out the pecans?
- Absolutely, walnuts work great too, or you can leave nuts out completely if you prefer.
- → How do I keep this cake fresh?
- Put it in a sealed container in the fridge for up to 5 days because of the cream cheese in the frosting.